Ambivalence refers to our internal conflicting emotions. I suspect it exists in that psychological space where we refuse to own an emotion, so we try to force the emotion to coexist with it’s opposite. We are giving ourselves time to consider and choose.
I have observed that some people, wanting to appear cool or hip or non-chalant actually feed ambivalence. Considered objectively, that practice ends up sabotaging our goals, our well-being, and our success.
What are some ways you have been ambivalent in recent days? Do you see how it is keeping you from happiness and success?
Resolve today to commit to your emotions. Stop waffling, and see your path to your dreams emerge as your new perspective takes hold.